Twenty-five (25)
Twenty-five. A very complex age. A point in time where you leave behind your casual,happy go lucky self to pursue a responsible and humble you.Somehow the dignity buried deep inside emerges and there you are holding it tight,not letting it go now.
You think you are smarter. More courageous to face the world but, are you?!
You think or in some instances, you know that you have experienced a lot. You can judge people by looking at their faces. It has to be true since twenty five is a lot of time. But,hey! Stop! You forget all this time it was you who was being judged.
You were being judged by your friends since they were still indecisive of whether you are a worthy friend at all. You were being judged by your parents since the last few years of you home-away had already made them inquisitive of you naturally (sorry, that hurts). And now you are being judged by the society over your achievements in life so far.They will judge and let you know if you have or have not made anything out of yourself in these 25 years.
I know that will hurt more than the former :).
You believe you know more than your parents will ever do. Somehow their 50 years become equivalent to your insignificant 25 years stay in the world. Your time saw the best of technology, better practices in all fields and you by the grace of your parents, enjoyed a greater exposure. You are eventually superior. Yes?
Not even in your slightest imagination, you know what you are heading to. SO let's begin!!
1. Responsibilities
If you think you will live alone and die alone,sorry that ain't happening. You will eventually be realized you have responsibilities towards your family and once you get married, they will eventually grow until you actually start to take them as a life norm.
2.You should know...
You should know because you have spent an ample amount of time on Earth. You ought to know because if you don't,get ready to hear stuff like "kia kya hai sari zindagi?".
3.Your younger siblings are suddenly critical of your every move...
What goes around comes around!
4.You still need to borrow money from your parents. Oops! No more on top of the world?
Your job isn't too good because you have just started and money is just never enough because of your previous habit of over-spending. But since the dignity, that has awaken ( as i said), unlike previously you will start to realize every penny borrowed as an addition to a debt. You will learn! Eventually!
5.You are not the only one...
You never were the only one. Not when you thought you have conquered the world by getting the best degree and not now when the job isn't too good and the points above just hit you really hard. So, take life easy as what is yours will make its way to you when the right time arrives!
You can thank me later!!
You think you are smarter. More courageous to face the world but, are you?!
You think or in some instances, you know that you have experienced a lot. You can judge people by looking at their faces. It has to be true since twenty five is a lot of time. But,hey! Stop! You forget all this time it was you who was being judged.
You were being judged by your friends since they were still indecisive of whether you are a worthy friend at all. You were being judged by your parents since the last few years of you home-away had already made them inquisitive of you naturally (sorry, that hurts). And now you are being judged by the society over your achievements in life so far.They will judge and let you know if you have or have not made anything out of yourself in these 25 years.
I know that will hurt more than the former :).
You believe you know more than your parents will ever do. Somehow their 50 years become equivalent to your insignificant 25 years stay in the world. Your time saw the best of technology, better practices in all fields and you by the grace of your parents, enjoyed a greater exposure. You are eventually superior. Yes?
Not even in your slightest imagination, you know what you are heading to. SO let's begin!!
1. Responsibilities
If you think you will live alone and die alone,sorry that ain't happening. You will eventually be realized you have responsibilities towards your family and once you get married, they will eventually grow until you actually start to take them as a life norm.
2.You should know...
You should know because you have spent an ample amount of time on Earth. You ought to know because if you don't,get ready to hear stuff like "kia kya hai sari zindagi?".
3.Your younger siblings are suddenly critical of your every move...
What goes around comes around!
4.You still need to borrow money from your parents. Oops! No more on top of the world?
Your job isn't too good because you have just started and money is just never enough because of your previous habit of over-spending. But since the dignity, that has awaken ( as i said), unlike previously you will start to realize every penny borrowed as an addition to a debt. You will learn! Eventually!
5.You are not the only one...
You never were the only one. Not when you thought you have conquered the world by getting the best degree and not now when the job isn't too good and the points above just hit you really hard. So, take life easy as what is yours will make its way to you when the right time arrives!
You can thank me later!!
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